A Lesson From Disrespect
I was disrespected and it hurt.
Disrespect Builds Walls
We all know the feeling we have after someone disrespects us. It’s awful. I hate the sinking feeling in my stomach. I especially hate it when I believe the criticism leveled at me. Words are powerful and impactful. I realize it every time I see an expression change on someone’s face. Words land in our personal space and then they find a way to creep in like some weird alien movie creature.
I try to avoid disrespectful people or to limit my interaction with them. It’s sad because it builds a wall of distrust between us. It breaks down productive communication until it is worthless.
A Lesson to Resist
I know what disrespect sounds like and feels like, but it took me years to identify it. That statement sounds very contradictory. I didn’t identify it as destructive because I accepted the words. They were just words, right? Wrong!
It’s when I finally felt irritated by someone’s disrespectful and ungrateful view that I finally recognized it as hurtful. It’s not ok to say things in the heat of the moment and then excuse it as such. Words linger, actions create memories, and they persist.
